What is Love?
April 11th, 2008 § Leave a Comment
Just wondering…
Is it love when you marry someone only to disregard their wishes and life?
Is it love when you plan a whole life together only to change your mind right before that important step?
Is it love when you say you can’t live without someone only to be in bed with someone else next weekend?
Is it love when you ask the other to change whole of his/her life so they can fit into your idea?
Is it love that turns away its face with other’s face/age?
Is it love that makes you want to stay friends forever but just not with them?
Is it love that dies if its against society/parents/caste/religion’s wishes?
Is it love that makes you seek out company of others the moment you are alone?
So many people are sad. So many people are lonely. So many people are lonely even when with somebody. So many people are feeling hurt.
And yet, people wonder why am I so cynical about Love?
Love is, I think, without definition.
Love is, I think, Respecting who you are, what you are, whatever you do, however you do it.
Things change and people change. Things that we want change and people we want change as well. Some deal with it, some cannot. Some learn with age. I think I learned. I hope I retain.
This week…
April 11th, 2008 § Leave a Comment
We change.. A bit every day, a bit more every year.. And a lot over the years.. We change…
Have you realized even the things we like or reasons that makes us happy/sad/irritated, they all change…
So I figured why not keep a log.. maybe read this post a year later and see how much I’ve changed.. for good or for worse..
Things that make me happy – Flowers (at least for today 
). Sweet Surprises. Mails from old Friends. Phone calls made just to hear your voice or say hello after a long time or a friend who just thought of you. Mom rubbing your head when it hurts.
Things that make me sad – Pain that my friends are going through. Nice guys finishing last. Humanity, so Indifferent towards everything. Poverty being treated as nothing but a book/photographic subject.
Things that annoy me – Stupid Questions. Redundant Arguments. Mails for heck of mailing. Ignorant people trying to prove their knowledge. Bad Drivers. Fakes. Disregard of ethics/rules. Indecisive people.
