Comments on: What have you learned from your past n present relationships? http://extremeconflicts.me/2009/04/01/what-have-you-learned-from-your-past-n-present-relationships/ Reality Sucks! I'm Going to Keep On Dreamin........ Fri, 10 Feb 2012 16:37:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Another Dreamer http://extremeconflicts.me/2009/04/01/what-have-you-learned-from-your-past-n-present-relationships/#comment-175 Thu, 02 Apr 2009 11:58:17 +0000 http://extremeconflicts.wordpress.com/2009/04/01/what-have-you-learned-from-your-past-n-present-relationships/#comment-175 Totally Agree… Very true n Profound, Brindz..
Trust is ultimately what keeps people together in long haul…

]]> By: brinda http://extremeconflicts.me/2009/04/01/what-have-you-learned-from-your-past-n-present-relationships/#comment-174 Thu, 02 Apr 2009 11:52:40 +0000 http://extremeconflicts.wordpress.com/2009/04/01/what-have-you-learned-from-your-past-n-present-relationships/#comment-174 I wanted to add one more thing…
Trust does not happen. It has to be built. People maybe in love, but end of the day they are 2 different individuals and its not possible for one to get into the minds of the other and understand things. It does not help when you sit lip tight, hands folded and expect people to trust you just because they are in love. There can be love at first sight, but there is never trust at first sight.

]]> By: Another Dreamer http://extremeconflicts.me/2009/04/01/what-have-you-learned-from-your-past-n-present-relationships/#comment-170 Thu, 02 Apr 2009 08:28:48 +0000 http://extremeconflicts.wordpress.com/2009/04/01/what-have-you-learned-from-your-past-n-present-relationships/#comment-170 Lol for pt 4.. I would say dun do it evn whn u r out wd boys/girls sans ur partner :P
I like your addendums.. ll remember them.. esp pt 3.. i need to work on that a bit :P

]]> By: Another Dreamer http://extremeconflicts.me/2009/04/01/what-have-you-learned-from-your-past-n-present-relationships/#comment-169 Thu, 02 Apr 2009 08:26:52 +0000 http://extremeconflicts.wordpress.com/2009/04/01/what-have-you-learned-from-your-past-n-present-relationships/#comment-169 Thats’ life darlin’… all are same yet all claim they are diff.. And yeah abt pt 3 in comment above.. very true.. definitely watch out the flirting.. tell him i’ll beat him up if he does sumthng stupid :P

]]> By: brinda http://extremeconflicts.me/2009/04/01/what-have-you-learned-from-your-past-n-present-relationships/#comment-167 Thu, 02 Apr 2009 01:55:30 +0000 http://extremeconflicts.wordpress.com/2009/04/01/what-have-you-learned-from-your-past-n-present-relationships/#comment-167 And I see we all make the same mistakes. Esp point 3 in the comment above is something both hari n me need to learn! :)

]]> By: Eric Wilde http://extremeconflicts.me/2009/04/01/what-have-you-learned-from-your-past-n-present-relationships/#comment-166 Thu, 02 Apr 2009 00:28:49 +0000 http://extremeconflicts.wordpress.com/2009/04/01/what-have-you-learned-from-your-past-n-present-relationships/#comment-166 Good list. I like #10. Very important. The theme here, open communication, is definitely right for me as well.

If I were to add the married person’s addendum:

1. Make sure you pay attention to your partner and spend time with them.
2. Kids take away a lot from your relationship. Make sure your relationship can handle it before you get pregnant.
3. Its OK to flirt with others; but, its really not worth going further. And be choosy about flirting so that you know the subject of your attention realizes its just flirting. Find out very early and explicitly if your new friend realizes there is nothing serious behind it.
4. Don’t drink too much on business trips.

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